You are not seeing other people. You are witnessing unfinished versions of yourself. This is the hidden mechanic of the human psyche. This is projection. It is the unconscious act of exiling the disowned, unloved, and unseen parts of yourself—your shadow—and then perceiving them in the world around you. You do not see what is. […]
Nobody can fix you, patch you up, or make you feel better. We are attached and coded to the idea that other people, something outside ourselves, is the elixir to healing, mending, and making ourselves feel free, whole, secure, and have a great life. Healing ourselves is not about changing who we are; it is about accepting ourselves as […]
This is the short version in a nutshell of the mirror that is always up and reflecting you back baby! Most don’t want to hear ‘The Mirror is up” when we are in a disagreement, turmoil, or just struggling with other people. ‘But,’ when we have that “special” like/love connection; we love to identify with them, and […]