Friends are the stuff that dreams and nightmares are made of, LOL. I have learned so much about myself through the many unusual friendship choices and attractions I have connected with over the years.
People were always pointing out to me that I have a wide variety of ‘types’ in my tribe, they thought they were unusual connections for my vibe. I never really thought about my vibe, I just picked up people along the way in life, I must have been hunting for myself. 😉
LQQing back, I am now a big believer that friendships are great quality mirrors.
The bigger the crowd, the more personalities to contend with, it is a big job fielding all that energy, while trying to manage your own.
I spent a lot of years crying over the crazy injustices, betrayals, gossip and bowl filled with other bullshit that I thought was happening to me.
I will tell you, even though it was a lot of crazy making, I have no regrets. In spite of all, I grew to love myself more, know myself more and accept others as they are and not as I wanted them to be.
It is when I started to take responsibility for my part, whether I started it or not, is when I began to heal myself and love who I am.
A big part of my growth is because of those friendships. Acting myself out over the years gave me tremendous feedback.
When I began to see the friendship discords as a whole connection and not me versus them when something wasn’t clicking, is when I was able to make my adjustments. Friends are angels always guiding us to the unknown territory of ourselves.
I love my friends, even the departed peeps that I am no longer friends or associated with now. I can now say, “Thank-You,” you were an important part of my life, and I am grateful for your contribution. Unfortunately, we don’t always figure that out at the time, but what matters is now.
We are constantly reading and feeling people out ALL the time, that is how energy works, always in motion. Every form of outward expression is sending out a message about who we are at that moment.
When we know ourselves, we feel, see and know better about who is in our lives, and that the purpose is to grow, to be an expression of love even when we are in quicksand.
Friendships are an energy current that is flowing through and between us, it’s the current that helps us understand what it means to “vibe with your tribe” or not. Friendships watch over us even when we are not clicking. They help us discover ourselves by our differences and likenesses.
What does it all boils down to; the relationship we have with ourselves will most often have an effect on our relationship with others. The reflection is there when we are willing to take a peak without feeling bad about ourselves, but instead embrace our friendships for what they are; a reflection of the life we are living with the people who are in it. Always be “YOU” it is the best GPS ever! Dolby Dharma
“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”– Anais Nin