Just say “Thank-You.”
Wouldn’t it be great if you could actually be brave enough to say thank-you to those you felt hurt you in some way?
It really is a blessing in disguise these disappointments, betrayals, rudeness, jealousy, etc. It’s how we grow, it is the action of life working FOR you and not happening TO you.
Like a great cup of tea, it must seep a bit before we can taste the benefits. Relationships are much like a cup of tea.
I have been sucker punched by people I love, and I am sure they felt knocked by me too. But in the end, does it really matter who did what? NO…What matters is what YOU know to be true for YOU.
Most people feel ‘justified’ in their behaviors. Not everyone gets that their actions are harmful, hurtful or destructive; because of some deep wound, deep unknowing, a deep desire that is driving their feelings, and of course some peeps are just living in total chaos within and don’t know it because of some ‘victim mentality.’
Whatever the reason is; the practice is to say, “thank-you.”
Because of what you saw as injustice was actually a gift from the Divine. How else did you get to be so extraordinaire?
Everyone is working for everyone in some capacity if you are open to seeing, feeling and hearing YOUR truth within. In other words, just owning and understanding your own shit works.
The next time you feel fucked over; Smile and say, I got this, grab yourself a cup of tea, and after all that seeps in smile within and say “Thank-you.”
Remember we teach people how to treat us and when we vibe on the high other’s will be thanking you too! Dolby Dharma
Mantra; I sail through life on the calm, on the high vibe and in the nurturing wave of growth. I am at peace with myself and with everyone around me no matter what the conditions are.~ Dolby Dharma