When it comes to relationships, it’s important to understand that your attraction towards certain people reflects your readiness for that type of relationship. If you find yourself drawn to people who are not a good fit for you, it might be because you are holding onto past hurts and are unconsciously seeking out similar situations. However, this realization can be a powerful opportunity for growth and change. By recognizing this pattern, you can take control of your life and make changes to attract healthier relationships. Remember, you have the power to create the kind of relationship you truly desire.⁠

One positive way to look at it is that the people who enter your life but don’t choose you or represent mediocrity provide an opportunity for you to set boundaries and say “no” to what doesn’t serve you.

To attract and build a healthy relationship with someone available and capable of loving you, it’s important to recognize your worth and become open to the possibility of finding true compatibility. Doing so can create space for the kind of love and connection you deserve.

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It’s understandable to feel like you’re only attracting unavailable people, but that does not reflect your worth. You have so much to offer, and it’s important to remember that you deserve someone ready and willing to reciprocate your feelings. Keep an open mind and heart, and don’t settle for anything less than what you truly deserve.

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You are inherently lovable, regardless of your level of readiness. Your self-worth determines what you accept in your life. You can control what you allow and how you see yourself. It’s time to take charge of your relationships and interactions with others.

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“Take control of your connections and relationships. You are not at the mercy of them, but rather, you are the one who decides who you want to associate with. Don’t settle for just anyone who wants to associate with you, and don’t let physical attraction be the sole reason for falling in love.

Believe in yourself and your worth. You deserve so much more, and it’s up to you to make the right choices to achieve it. Remember, it’s not just about words but actions that make a difference.

Embrace your individuality and take back control of your life. Crushing Codependency is the key to transforming all of your relationships and living life on your own terms.” 

You’ve always had the power, my Dear!

You just have to learn it for yourself!