I often wonder what the hell is this life all about!
Relationships appear to be the biggest challenges for most of us. Doesn’t matter what kind; friends, lovers, co-workers, children, siblings, strangers, you name it. There is always something going on with our relationships.
We were birthed into an assignment…LOL…From the moment I can remember, my life was about connecting and getting along. I felt social at a very young age, and I always felt very conflicted about behaviors, including my own, and wondering WTF.
Relationships are like a ‘call and response’ chant; They call, and we respond and vice versa.
The good news about the assignment is that we most likely won’t know or understand what’s it all about; therefore there is no pass or fail, but what I do believe is that we exist in each other and each other(s) lives.
I believe we came here to heal, to gain peace, clarity, and freedom moment by moment. We came to be kind to ourselves and spread that kindness around.
Everyone here on the planet gets the relationship assignment, and just when you think you have your humans in a row, someone falls in or out and relating gets challenging as we feel our emotional selves. My relationships have always reflected back some aspect of myself whether I liked it or not.
So this assignment is ongoing, it is the day-to-day. It is the transformation highway of life.
Best way to work with our relationships is to begin by realizing we have choices as to have we are going to respond or react based on our emotional health.
What better way to get to know ourselves than by looking at all the mirrors that show up for us daily. That is the best way to feel yourself through your relationships.
We know that different people trigger different reactions in us. So tune in, pay attention to what you feel when you are in the presence of another being. Work on not placing a label on it, just be with your feelings and that of the other. You will be surprised at what you will learn about yourself.
It’s a good idea to set boundaries for ourselves and to honor our sacred space, this is a consciousness that allows us to strengthen our relationship to ourselves and the people we come in contact with.
Bottom line; we will be triggered, and we will trigger others, that is when the assignment begins each and every time.
Should you accept this assignment, unfortunately, or fortunately depending on how you view it, you get an assign being even if you don’t want it. LOL…Get in the game to expand upon who you are to yourself first and foremost. Once we gain insight into ourselves on an intimate vibration, our relationships can heal us, help us and bring us back to ourselves in a healthy, harmonious, loving way.
“I embrace everything about me.”
“I embrace my uncanny beauty and my bewildering pain.”
“I embrace my hungry soul and my wounded longing.”
“I embrace my flaws, my fears, and my scary frontiers.”
“I embrace my surprising power, my sweet mysteries, and my unknown freedom.”
“There’s nobody quite like you. Step into the magic of who and what you are.”
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