At one point in our lives, we are mishandled, and we mishandled people. All this stems from our POV of any situation and how well we feel about ourselves. What affects us, or infects us lays hidden deep within the psyche, waiting to be triggered. The reveal or the test comes when we feel betrayed, hurt, misunderstood, and dismissed. That is our moment of truth. Any conflict may trigger up old or new emotions, and that is the time we will react or attack back, to defend ourselves; It’s instinctive.
When conflict arises, it’s an opportunity to see where we can get a grip, get unstuck on our response(s) towards challenging people and their actions/remarks. It is the perfect time to tune them out and tune into our hearts, and not get sucked into the vortex of war, aggression and EGO battles.
But…Doable…Takes a lot of restraint, a sense of YOUR TRUTH and NOT responding to another’s opinion, POV of who we are, or what it is that we feel tripped up over. In conflict, if we can listen to another POV, we can find OUR truth inside the differences. Find the peaceful spot within, and know, this too shall pass.
I trust my mastery enough to share it with others during conflicts and challenging moments. I open the channels of communication with the Higher-Selves, without engaging the small-self.
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